Ask any female and she will more than likely tell you that she doesn’t understand the way a mans mind works. Unfortunately lots of this is stemmed from the fact that the male species don’t seem so sure either. Lots of guys want to settle down and be in a proper relationship whilst just as many of them want to play the field.

For those serious about being in a relationship, the question is how to get a girlfriend. Well this will depend on the type of girl you want to meet. It is probably wise to meet some one with shared interests as you, so if you have a hobby try and see about meeting some one else involved. You should always be confident when it comes to attracting and approaching women because confidence is personality trait that females love.

For those not so serious and wonder how to be a player the rules are similar. Women still like confident men. Remember in a night club or somewhere, if you approach a girl you are affectively selling yourself to them so you want to make sure that you give the right impression. Chat to them lots and pay an interest in what they have to say. Charm them and they will soon start to respond.

As before the rules on how to chat up a woman are much the same whatever your intentions are afterwards. To save any hassle or heart ache it is probably best to be honest and up front about what you want. Remember it is all about making a women feel special so really do pay attention to things she says, ask questions about her interests etc and she will soon start to return your advances – whatever you want the turn out to be with your new ‘love interest’.